New York City is one of the greatest cities in the world, but we really need to do better with our manners. From the subway to standing in line for Starbucks, the energy immediately gets zapped from you with the hustle, bustle and all-around poor etiquette of the residents of the Big Apple.
Not to brag about myself, but strangers constantly praise me on my good manners, which my mother is very happy about. I often say “thank you” even when someone bumps into me (which I admit I have to work on), but it is just a reflex to me now, ingrained in my brain since childhood. Though I have called New York City my home all my life (except for college), I have worked really hard to never let the chaotic vibe take over me and let me lose my cool and the politesse that my family worked so hard to instill in me.
While in Paris, I noticed it was just normal to say “pardonne” or “merci”. I was shocked. Clearly, we still do have a lot to learn from the French. When I came across a new piece from Mathias Chaize, it really reminded me of the amazing time I had in the city, but also the fact that I never at anytime felt like Parisians were rude or snobbish, which is the going stereotype.
The week is almost drawing to a close, but I encourage you to try and say “thank you” at least three times a day. It can be to your mom for sending you an article you enjoyed, to someone who was nice enough to hold the door and especially to whomever makes your coffee or waits on your table. Thank you goes a really long way and it also feels really good. Try it!
Urban Sybaris 
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